Cover for James J. Bentley Jr.'s Obituary

IN LOVING MEMORY OF

James J.
Bentley

Jan 25, 1954 — Nov 8, 2026

Obituary

James "Jim" J. Bentley, III, age 72, of Rome, was called home to the Lord on November 8, 2026. He was provided comfort and gentle care given by those at the Abraham House of Rome, and was surrounded by the love of family and close friends. He passed peacefully with his loving wife by his side.

Jim was born in Rome on January 25, 1954, to the late James and Eileen Keough Bentley and graduated from Rome Catholic High where he is still remembered for his record-breaking basketball skills. On September 15, 2001, he married the love of his life, Susan J. DeRuby and they shared 25 years of marriage with love and devotion to one another. For 20 years, Jim was a dedicated employee for the City of Rome where he worked as an electrician retiring in December 2022. In addition, Jim owned and operated The Cove for 25+ years where he enjoyed building a successful business while creating fond memories with family and friends.

Jim enjoyed just being at home doing home improvement projects and spending special time with his family (Susan, Erika, Makayla, and Braiden) and his sweet canine companion, Charlotte ("Charli"). He also looked forward to any opportunity to be with his brothers; whether it be hunting, fishing, riding motorcycles, or just being together. Having coffee at sister Cathy's was a special treat and another simple pleasure Jim enjoyed in life. In earlier years Jim was an avid golfer; however in his later years he enjoyed watching golf on tv; as well as, watching tennis with his beloved father. His favorite phrase as of late regarding football was, "Go Bills!"

Jim is survived by his loving wife, Susan; his cherished daughter, Erika; his adored grandchildren, Makayla and Braiden; his beloved siblings, Cathy (Joseph) Schillaci, Daniel (Bonnie) Bentley, Patrick Bentley, and Joseph Bentley; Godson, Colin Bentley, and several nieces and nephews.

Relatives and friends may pay their respects on Friday, November 13, from 9 to 11 AM, at St. Peter's Church, 200 N. James Street, Rome. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 AM and Jim's remains will be laid to rest in St. Mary's Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Abraham House of Rome, 417 N. Washington Street, Rome, NY 13440.

Funeral arrangements are entrusted to the Barry Funeral Home, 807 W. Chestnut Street, Rome.

Please offer online condolences at www.barryfuneralhome.com.

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